Was, Is & 2 bE..

2009-01-27T22:28:00.004+08:00

很喜欢《不再约会》这本书里的一些见解。

1。两人的嘴唇相碰并不一定代表两颗心已经相连；而两人的身体虽然彼此吸引，却不代表两个人就
适合对方。
2。没有委身的亲密感，就像蛋糕上的糖霜，虽然很甜，但只吃这个却会让人感到恶心。
3。缺乏委身的亲密感是一种欺骗，而缺乏友谊的亲密感是很肤浅的。
4。要得见单身真正的美妙，不能靠拼命变换恋爱对象而达成；单身真正的美妙，在于能够尽情使
用你的自由来服事神。
5。爱是纯全品格的养份，提供了等待所需的耐心。
6。社会爱的定义：-爱的主要目的是满足自我和安慰自己
- 爱主要是一种感觉
- 爱是不能控制的
神队爱的定义：-爱不是为了满足自己，而是为了他人的益处，也是为了神的荣耀
- 真爱不是以感觉来衡量或受感觉主导
-爱是我们可以掌控的
7。我们不应该让感觉来决定交往的风格和步调，相反的，我们需要让智慧，耐心及无私来引导我
们。
8。真爱要等待，这不只是指性行为；真爱会等待正确的时间。委身于神设计的爱乃是一种不会动
摇，不会被削弱，全然委身的爱。
9。人们常过于想马上得到他们想要的（或者该说他们自以为想要的，而通常指的是不同形式的快
乐。）所以他们才这么地急躁。然而，讽刺的是，只有当事人愿意学习等候，并且愿意接受苦乐掺
半的人生时，通常才能获得真正有价值的事物。
10。神要我们欣赏人生中每一刻独有的恩赐，他要我们学习有耐心和信任他，凡是等候他完美的
时机，包括我们的爱情生活。
11。当你现在决定等待，暂时不表达这份情感，以后你绝对不会后悔。

感触

2009-01-27T22:10:00.002+08:00

不懂是否因为戏而有这份感触。。。。
你曾经有过看完一套戏后，心底有种挥之不去的感觉？我觉得这感觉应该是惆怅吧。。
有点伤感，似乎有些什么在搅动着。。。多数是因为戏里的爱情。。
感触。。有爱的世界是美丽的。是缤纷色彩的。。
我常认为当人为自己而活时，终有一天会发现活着似乎毫无意义。
人在为着自己所爱的人活，为了保护他们，照顾他们，而变得强大，变得坚定。
现在终于明白为何我总认为这世界是美好的。
上帝的爱在我的心中源源不断的充盈，让灰暗的世界也变得缤纷色彩。
爱让世界更美丽。

单纯？

2008-08-23T13:58:00.003+08:00

为什么别人总认为我单纯？
是我太会伪装呢？还是我真的单纯呢？
难道坚持相信这世界还是美好的，还是有希望，还是有好人，还是有完美的婚姻就是单纯吗？
难道人与人之间真的不能有信任吗？总是要提防着彼此吗？
那。。。这世界未免太可悲了嘛。。。
可能我活在一个被保护的世界里从没真正体会被伤害的疼痛吧。。。
但到如今我还是坚持相信这一切，不想对这世界感到灰心。
可能会受伤害，但也不希望带着怀疑防备的心面对每个人。

计时炸弹

2008-08-23T13:28:00.004+08:00

当身上挂着计时炸弹过每一天的生活会是什么样的感受呢?
每天都胆战心惊。。。不知它什么时候会爆炸，将你现在的生活炸得面目全非。
现在的生活到底还能保持到什么时候呢？
如果炸弹真的爆炸了，那后果会是如何？
种种的测想都会在脑袋里出现。
但。。。习惯是个恐怖的东西。不知该感激它还是要对它感到恐惧。。
时间久了，挂着计时炸弹还是一样可以处之泰然的过着自己的生活。
心中想着，大不了被炸得面目全非。。可能这后果没想象中糟糕。
或许它永远也不会爆炸，也或许它只是虚张声势。。。。
当你认为一切将如此走下去时。。。。
那令人厌恶的计时炸弹却发出即将要爆炸的警铃。
心瞬时跌入谷底，以为一切将要完蛋了。。终于是时候面对它的后果了。。。。
但又是一次虚假的警铃。。。让人感到自己又被一次欺骗了感情。
为什么就不能干脆地炸了？或直接将这炸弹给除去呢？
不喜欢情绪被它所摆动。。。
这样的日子还得延续多久呢？
真的感到有点累了。。。

心

2008-04-22T15:55:00.007+08:00

你要保守你心，胜过保守一切，因为一切的果效都是由心发出。

要改变就必须有决心。心飘浮不定，什么事都无法完成。

能征服并震撼人心的也是一颗真诚的心

心支配了人的行为和方向。

你是否遗失了起初单纯的心呢？

因为世界而迷失了吗？

为什么人都说爱情的魔力很大？

因为爱情改变了人的心，柔软了人的心。

多了包容，忍耐，怜惜，疼爱。

心

让人更靠近彼此，更了解彼此。

你的心让人看见了吗？还是渐渐的封闭了呢？

好好看进别人的心，别被外表蒙骗了。

请也好好看看自己的心。

因为心是不会说谎的。

The 8 Keys of Excellence

2008-04-22T15:38:00.003+08:00

Integrity: conduct yourself with authencity, sincerity and wholeness. Your values and
behaviour are aligned

Failure Leads to Success:Understand that failures simply provide you with the information
you need to succeed. There are no failures, only outcomes and
feedback. Everything can be useful if you know how to find the gift.

Speak with Good Purpose: Speak in a positive sense and be responsible for honest and direct
communication. Avoid gossip and harmful communication.

This is it: Focus your attention on the present moment and make the most of it. Give each task
your best effort.

Commitment: Follow through on your promises and obligation; live your vision. Do whatever it
takes to get the job done.

Ownership: Take responsibility and be accountable for your actions.

Flexibility: Be open to change or a new approach when it helps you get the outcomes you
desire.

Balance: Keep your mind, body and spirit in alignment. Spent time developing and maintaining
these three areas.

86's perSONaliTY

2007-09-17T13:01:00.000+08:00

content

outgoing
group oriented
decisive
easily talked into doing silly things
easily distracted
comfortable in unfamiliar situations
does not like to be alone
can be influenced more by others than self
talkative
always joking

87's PeRs0NaliTy

2007-09-17T12:52:00.000+08:00

ESFJ

**The ESFJ's strong desire to be liked and for everything to be pleasant makes them highly supportive of others.
**The ESFJ takes their responsibilities very seriously, and is very dependable. They value security and stability, and have a strong focus on the details of life. They see before others do what needs to be done, and do whatever it takes to make sure that it gets done. They enjoy these types of tasks, and are extremely good at them.
**ESFJs are warm and energetic. They need approval from others to feel good about themselves. They are hurt by indifference and don't understand unkindness. They are very giving people, who get a lot of their personal satisfaction from the happiness of others. They want to be appreciated for who they are, and what they give.
**They usually have very well-formed ideas about the way things should be, and are not shy about expressing these opinions.
**All ESFJs have a natural tendency to want to control their environment. ESFJs are most comfortable with structured environments. They're not likely to enjoy having to do things which involve abstract, theoretical concepts, or impersonal analysis. They do enjoy creating order and structure, and are very good at tasks which require these kinds of skills.
**ESFJs at their best are warm, sympathetic, helpful, cooperative, tactful, down-to-earth, practical, thorough, consistent, organized, enthusiastic, and energetic. They enjoy tradition and security, and will seek stable lives that are rich in contact with friends and family.

88's Personality

2007-09-17T12:38:00.000+08:00

~good at logical analysis, and like to use it on practical concerns~
~typically have strong powers of reasoning,

although are not interested in theories or concepts~
~do not like to lead or control people~
~very tolerant and flexible in most situations,

unless one of firmly held beliefs has been violated or challenged~
~likely to be very shy when it comes to meeting new people~
~very self-confident and gregarious around people I know well,

or when discussing theories which I fully understand~

???

2007-09-10T12:50:00.001+08:00

Feeling of 86~~~

haa, why 3 of us gather together???....4 88 n 87, there is GOD's WILL....., 4 me , there is 'YUAN FEN' n maybe three of us hv similarity....blur? innocent?? crazy?? pretty?? kawaii?? hardworking??

Y y tell me why?

2007-09-10T12:28:00.000+08:00

Why wasis2be establish?

wasis2be is a web belongs to 3 blur girls....
different background, different age-868788...........
from nouth & south, finally at 3th July 2006 they met.....
wasis2be? --- who was me b4? who are us now since we meet? Who are v going 2be?

8~.~8 8:p7 8^_^6